Caring for someone with Autism or Asperger’s can be one of the most rewarding and challenging experiences. Every person is unique — their triggers, strengths, and communication styles are different — but one thing remains constant: they deserve to feel safe, understood, and supported.
At Rosemont Care, we work with individuals and families across Kent who live with complex behaviours related to autism and other conditions. Over the years, we’ve learned that the key to great care lies in understanding, consistency, and compassion — both at home and through professional support.
This guide shares some of the signs to look out for, how loved ones can offer meaningful support, and how we can help when extra care is needed.
Understanding Complex Behaviours and Autism
Autism is a lifelong developmental condition that affects how a person communicates, interacts, and experiences the world around them. While every person on the spectrum is different, there are some common signs families may notice — especially during early development or times of stress.
Some signs to look out for include:
Difficulty with social interaction – avoiding eye contact, struggling to interpret facial expressions, or preferring to be alone.
Communication differences – delayed speech, repetitive phrases, or difficulty understanding tone or sarcasm.
Repetitive behaviours – such as hand-flapping, rocking, or repeating routines in a specific order.
Sensory sensitivities – reacting strongly to sounds, lights, textures, or certain foods.
Strong interests or routines – becoming deeply focused on specific topics or finding comfort in predictability.
Distress during change – difficulty coping with new environments or unexpected changes.
Recognising these behaviours is the first step to providing support that truly fits the person’s world.
Supporting Loved Ones at Home
Caring for someone with autism or complex behaviours at home can be challenging, especially when emotions or routines become overwhelming. But small adjustments and consistent strategies can make a big difference.
Here are some approaches that families and siblings have found helpful:
1. Create a predictable environment
Routines offer security. Use visual schedules, timers, or pictures to show what’s coming next during the day. This reduces anxiety and helps transitions go smoothly.
2. Use clear and simple communication
Avoid metaphors or long explanations. Short, direct sentences paired with gestures or visuals often work best.
3. Identify and respect sensory needs
Some people are calmed by soft lighting or weighted blankets; others may need noise-cancelling headphones or sensory toys. Notice what helps your loved one self-regulate.
4. Celebrate special interests
Instead of discouraging fixations, use them as pathways for connection — whether it’s trains, music, or art. Shared enthusiasm builds trust and engagement.
5. Stay calm during dysregulation
When a person becomes distressed or physically dysregulated, your calm presence is key. Give them space, speak gently, and avoid physical touch unless it’s safe and welcomed.
6. Take care of yourself, too
Family caregivers need rest and support. Joining a local support group or seeking respite care can make a world of difference.
How Rosemont Care Supports People with Complex Behaviours in Kent
At Rosemont Care, we provide specialist complex behaviour and autism support that’s tailored to each individual’s needs, preferences, and personality.
Our carers receive advanced training in areas such as Team Teach, PMVA (Prevention and Management of Violence and Aggression), and communication support for people on the autism spectrum. This means we’re equipped not only to keep people safe but to help them thrive.
We work closely with families, schools, and healthcare professionals to develop person-centred care plans. Whether someone needs structured day support, help with community inclusion, or overnight respite care, we ensure every aspect of support promotes dignity, stability, and joy.
“The difference was instant. The Rosemont team understood my son’s triggers and worked with us to create a plan that really worked — it’s changed all our lives.”
— Parent of a service user
By blending structure with empathy, we help people with autism build confidence, independence, and a stronger sense of control in their everyday lives.
When to Seek Extra Support
Every family’s situation is different, but you might benefit from professional help if:
Your loved one’s behaviour is becoming difficult to manage safely at home.
Routines or transitions cause extreme distress or meltdowns.
You’re feeling emotionally or physically exhausted as a caregiver.
Your loved one could benefit from new activities or social opportunities.
At Rosemont Care, we’re here to help — whether that means providing respite for a few hours a week or full, ongoing support for complex needs.
Conclusion
Supporting someone with autism or complex behaviours takes patience, creativity, and compassion. With the right understanding, even the most challenging moments can become opportunities for growth.
At Rosemont Care, we’re proud to work alongside families in Kent who show incredible dedication every day. Together, we can build environments where people with autism feel respected, empowered, and truly at home.
Because at Rosemont Care, we don’t just care for people — we help them live with confidence and connection.
Get in Touch
If you’d like to speak to our team about complex behaviour or autism support in Kent, we’d love to hear from you.
Contact our team on 01634 717 432 (Medway) or 01708 505511 (Dagenham) for a FREE assessment to take the first step towards a happily helping hand.
External link suggestions
Kent County Council – Autism Support
National Autistic Society